Don't be cruel to a heart that's true.

How to forgive. Accept the lesson .

Learn that You decided what you perceived. SEE that you defined what you saw. Now, see it as a goodness, a kindness, a blessing or a teaching for you..

It's a blessing to be poor so that you can learn to depend on the Creator. His glory shows in your care.

It's a blessing to be rejected so you can understand how his heart aches for friendship with you

It's a blessing to be betrayed so you can see how he felt when Judas kissed him.

It's a blessing to hurt others and know that you could have chosen differently, that you will choose differerntly next time.

It's a blessing to learn that though you hurt others that he will give them strength to survive

It's a blessing to see that others have needs you can't understand. It teaches you that your needs may not be understood by anyone but you and the Creator.

It's a blessing to be left hurt and alone so you learn you can survive with the Creator.

You learn that others needs are important to themselves.

It's a blessing to lose a friend or a lover when it shows you they are always with you and that you will live with them forever.

It's a blessing to travel without a friend to learn to treasure the one friend that will always hold you dear. Then you learn you always have that love to give and depend on.

When you live without the love of a man or woman you learn how precious is that love between two people.

It's a blessing to learn the real love refills and refreshes you without drawing from another who may not know how to love.

It's the most great of goodnesses when you can show someone the love that is there for them and see it wrap them in the protection and joy of that love forever.

It's a blessing when a person is cruel or mean to you because you can see how much they need love. You can't fix it if you don't know it's broken. By showing you how much love they need the wound is displayed for repair and healing.

It is a blessing to not know where your next need will be filled from because you get to be surprised and amazed as it comes. It's a blessing to have a father or mother leave you because you actively search for that love in each person you meet. You find it in the creator in each of us.

It's a blessing to leave little children behind because you learn their true worth to you and would lay down your life for them to take the hurt back. Like he felt about us.

It is the most wonderful blessing when your children return to you with love in their sad hurt hearts, still for you. You understand humble, grace and mercy all at one time.

It is a blessing to live without the comfort of a friend because when you receive it you will treasure it.

It is the most wonderful day of your life when you return home. Forget my birthday, forget my anniversaries, forget my holidays but remeber the day I went home as the best day of the rest of my life.

Luke 6:40 The disciple is not above his master: but every one that is perfect ( to completed thoroughly, i.e. repair (literally or figuratively) or adjust:--fit, frame, mend, (make) perfect(-ly join together), prepare, restore.) shall be as his master.